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“Grief is the process of putting back together the pieces of a broken heart. A hole so deep in the middle of your heart that it aches and hurts. You think you’ll never stop hurting.”

Joanne Petrie

One to Another was started in 1979 by Joanne Smith Petrie and her late husband Duane with a single goal in mind – to provide men and women that have experienced loss with an opportunity to meet other people in the same circumstances who will readily understand the grieving process.

When Joanne married Dr. Ron Petrie in 1997, they continued to expand the programs offered by One to Another to include classes, seminars, books, DVD’s, and a weekly radio program.

For men and women One to Another offers two grief classes, “Grief Release,” and “Beyond Grief Release,” that take you step by step through the healing process and tech you how to embrace life again. Please click on the tab about to learn more about our grief release classes and how to register for them.

We also offer other opportunities to help women embrace and nurture hope and encouragement in an environment of growth, healing, and unlimited potential with our Friend to Friend Programs, Moving Forward support group, and our Journeys of Hope Seminar Series.

Joanne Smith Petrie and Ron Petrie are available for one day seminars/ classes on grief and for speaking engagements to churches, groups, and individuals concerned with helping people work through the grieving process.

Our weekly Live radio call-in show about grief is on KPDQ, 93.9 FM every Saturday from 4:00pm – 5:00pm. Please come join us!

The Griever’s Holiday Bill of Rights

  1. You have a right to say TIME OUT at any time you need to. Time out to let up, blow a little steam, step away from the holidays, have a “huddle” and start over.
  2. You have a right to TELL IT LIKE IT IS. When people ask, “How are you…” you have the right to tell them how you really feel, not just what they want to hear. (PS. You also have the right to smile and say you’re fine because telling them how you really feel isn’t worth your time – some people will never understand anyway.)
  3. You have the right to SOME “BAH HUMBUG” DAYS. You don’t have to be “Jolly Old St. Nicholas” all the time. You are not a bad person just because you don’t feel like singing Christmas carols all day.
  4. You have the right to DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY. There is no law that says you must always do Christmas the same way. You can do 10 cards instead of 100 – or no cards at all! You can open presents at somebody else’s house. You can do without a tree. You can have pizza instead of turkey! The list is endless!
  5. You have the right to BE WHERE YOU WANT TO BE. Be at home or with the relatives. Be in any city, any state you choose! NOBODY SAID YOU HAVE TO HAVE SNOW TO HAVE CHRISTMAS. There’s no law that says you must stay home!
  6. You have a right to SOME FUN! When you have a day that isn’t so bad and you feel like doing something just for fun, then do it! Don’t be afraid of what someone else will say if they see you laughing and having a good time. Laughter is every bit as important as tears!
  7. You have a right to CHANGE DIRECTION IN MID-STREAM. Holiday grief is unpredictable. You may be all ready to go somewhere or do something and suddenly be overwhelmed. When that happens, it’s okay to change your mind. There’s plenty of time in life to be predictable. Exercise your right to change when you need to.
  8. You have a right to DO THINGS AT DIFFERENT TIMES. Go to church at a different time. Open presents at a different time. Serve your meal at a different time. Give up and go to bed at a different time! Don’t be a slave to the holiday clock.
  9. You have a right to REST, PEACE, and SOLITUDE. You don’t need to be busy all the time. Take a nap whenever you need one. Take time to pray and to meditate, to recharge your spirit. It may do you much more good than eating another huge meal!
  10. You have the right to DO IT ALL DIFFERENTLY AGAIN NEXT YEAR. Just because you change things one year – you know, try something different – does not mean you have written it in stone. Next year you can always change it back or do it in yet another way.

Bruce H. Conley 1992